The interchange of pairs or Swinging every day is commonest between the people, that see in this practices a form to break the sexual routine, although many do not know their consequences.
For them the jealousy do not exist, the fidelity is only an agreement and the sexual relations must be opened . Those that swinger or interchange of pair practices enjoy sex between friends and assure that this provides a new vision to them to its relations.
Although great part of the population, religious groups and organizations pro values do not approve this practice, every day increases the number of people who adopt it, to the time that an endless number of sex shops and bars are offered like contact place.
From then, the interest has grown and the reason is simple: swingers has taken care to present, through diverse means like magazines and pages of Internet, the pleasure that experiment.
They comment that the eroticism is in all its splendor, the adrenalin runs by his veins, each one of them gives the best thing of himself and, later, a hug and a kiss seal the goodbye.
Ardent desire to arrive at the home becomes patent, each one looks for to return to the familiar sine and to narrate its experience. If she were pleasure, husband and woman, fiance and fiancee return to go to the house of appointments in search of another pair, of another interchange, with the hope of which it is still better than the previous one.
DISEASE OR SIMPLE TO PLEASE?
Swingers is “normal “people that they pretend to have one more a more open attitude before its sexuality, that handles their relation of pair in a little conventional form and that, in general terms, find in this practice an stimulation, that greater sense enriches and even gives its emotional bond.
Generally, these practices are specifically made in closed groups or in centers or bars. The rules of the groups very are varied, but something that quite common and is generalized is that the access to pairs is only allowed and not single individuals
The rules are strict: they only enter even, is prohibited to fall in love, do not take part the jealousy, all the details of the relation must be counted to his spouse, one is not due to act secretly and it is necessary to be healthy physics and spiritually.
The rules vary in agreement with the group, nevertheless, all agree in the obligatory use of condom and the contraceptives during the relation.
BETWEEN THE FANTASY AND THE REALITY
Before the presence of a sensual woman, unmarried, married, widowers and divorced they make in his mind a erotic history in which the punisher, dominating and owner of the situation are he. The woman, on the other hand, when seeing the muscles, smile, eyes and exuberant buttock of a man, imagines a love history in which in the end, barriers are overcome and everything culminates in a happy and lasting relation.
The imagination plays an important role within the human relations; however, those that choose by swinger wish to turn their dream in fact.
This fashion is a form to make reality the sexual fantasies, mainly the masculine ones. Generally men wish to have manifold even sexual in comparison to women, thinks that he is by the genetic conformation of the men, that takes to look for them variety in its relations, although others think that also there is a consolidation process that takes to the greater facility of them to choose to a erotic pair.
“Swingers is an option for those men who look for variety and they affiliate previous process of conviction of its woman, of the pair. They say “I I do not want to you to deceive, better we are going to make it open and democratic”, and as many women do not want to lose their man or, well, also the variety feels like to them, reach an agreement “.
The specialists think that the relation type to swinger enjoys it plus the man who the woman, since she is at the mercy of the social prejudices and of the sexual inhibition.
THE PRICE OF THE PLEASURE
For many it can sound amused and exciting, but the certain thing is that few pairs have managed to leave intact a relation to swinger.
Blonde noticed that the distance between the reality and the fantasy is great.
The news are not very good and they do not corroborate the potentials of swinger, in general terms, most of even they do not last so as and they are injured, which is stimulating in a while later is tremendously aggressive for some of the members, if it is not that for both.
He is little realistic that can be had an absolute control on the emotions, for example, a rule is that the deal with the other person must be strictly erotic and is prohibited to fall in love, but that is not easy to decide; even, that rule is first that is broken. Another case is that the man has a fantasy and he makes it, but when it sees that her woman responds no longer to another man can and feels betrayed.
To say of Blonde, the feelings and the self-esteem of some of the members are seen seriously damaged, in addition of which attempt against the permanence of the pair or the marriage.
Not it exists legislation that penalizes activity of this type, since it is a deprived activity, in which all and all those that participate agree, which yes has been observed is that in some groups and centers public conscience does not exist on the necessity of sexual protection.
THEY EXCEED THE LIMIT
Desire to experience new sensations usually takes to the incursion in several practices, generally, the degrees are satisfied of the following way: